What Would You Do in That Situation?

You’re walking across campus after class. Your phone is buzzing with notifications. There’s a quiz tomorrow. A friend texts, “Are you coming tonight?”

And suddenly, you feel the pressure.

So here’s a question worth asking:

What would you do in that situation?

College is filled with moments like these. Decisions show up every day, whether to go out or stay in, whether to ask for help or try to handle things on your own, whether to speak up or stay quiet. It can seem like everyone around you already has it figured out.

In reality, most people are still learning as they go.

You might find yourself in class listening carefully while others nod along, wondering if you’re the only one who feels unsure. In moments like that, it helps to remember that understanding often comes through connection. Talking with a classmate, visiting office hours, or asking a quick question after class can completely change the way material makes sense.

Other times, the challenge can feel more personal. You see groups heading to events or studying together, and you might wonder where you fit. What’s easy to forget is that many friendships begin in simple ways,  a greeting before class, choosing a seat next to someone new, or attending a meeting for the first time. Small steps build community.

There may also be days when things don’t go as planned. An assignment feels harder than expected. A schedule becomes overwhelming. Doubts creep in.

In those moments, pause.

A tough day is part of the college experience, not a verdict on whether you belong. Growth often happens when we learn how to respond to uncertainty rather than avoid it.

College isn’t about having every answer. It’s about learning how to move forward, even when you’re not sure what the perfect decision looks like.

And you are never expected to do that alone.

Peer advisors, professors, and campus resources exist because support is part of the William & Mary community. Reaching out can feel intimidating, but it’s one of the most effective ways to regain direction and confidence.

So when you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure, come back to the question:

What would you do in that situation?

Start there. Take one step. Adjust if you need to.

Progress is built that way.